DON’T GASLIGHT ME!

# Understanding Gaslighting: A Personal Journey and Resource Collection

## Origins and Personal Connection

I'm particularly drawn to examining the increasing prevalence of gaslighting in our society - whether it manifests in personal relationships, organizations, or broader social contexts. My interest was sparked by personal experience, though the details will, forever, remain private. I find it fascinating that the term "gaslighting" originates from Patrick Hamilton's 1938 play "Gas Light," later popularized by the 1944 film adaptation. As a playwright myself and former Distinguished Dean's Fellow at the University of California (where I earned my MFA), this theatrical connection resonates deeply with me.

## Important Resources on Gaslighting

I've collected some interesting resources for understanding this phenomenon:

1. "Am I Being Gaslighted at My Job? Black Women & Toxic Jobs" - A video exploring workplace gaslighting specifically affecting Black women

2. "The SURPRISING SIGNS Someone Is 'GASLIGHTING' You!" by Dr. Ramani - Expert insights into recognizing gaslighting behaviors

3. "Blowing the Whistle on Harmful Behaviors at Work" from Psychology Today - Understanding workplace dynamics and advocacy

## Advocacy and Personal Causes

My advocacy work spans several areas close to my heart:

### Disability Rights and Care

- Mother to an amazing autistic young man (eldest of my three sons)

- Caregiver to Tip, my disabled dog who hasn't walked in over 10 years

- Together with my husband, we've managed complex care responsibilities for 40 years! Whew:)

### Education and Community Support

- Former teacher in Watts, working with students who had limited exposure to higher education opportunities

- Advocate for homeless individuals, foster youth, and those facing abandonment

### Healthcare Advocacy

- Founder of The Georgia Mae Project (www.thedrgeorgiamaeproject.com)

- Focus on raising awareness about challenges faced by BIPOC women with cancer diagnoses, treatment, and care.

## Current Journey

I'm embarking on a 40-day fast, which will limit my social media and technology use. However, I felt compelled to start this project of interest - one that I believe was divinely inspired, as many meaningful projects in my life have been.

While I won't be actively monitoring responses during this time, I hope these resources and insights prove valuable to others facing similar challenges. Together, we can learn, grow, and create positive change in our communities. We are the leaders we’re looking for!